She passes by.
And you let out a sigh.
How you wish she'd look your way?
Well, no problem boys! Here's a crash course on how to improve your sex appeal among girls: Attractiveness 101!
[Take note: This is not to be taken seriously, I'm just doing this for fun. But who knows? It might work to some desperate soul out there.]
If you have a target female, it is important to know what kind of guy she likes. Does she like jock types of guys? Emo? Nerdy type? Macho playboy? This way, you'll be able to possess more attributes that would catch her eye.
1. HAIR
Hair is important. Your hairstyle can change entirely the way you look and how you carry yourself. To girls, rebonding/curling hair can be easy and can present desirable results. But as for guys, I think the best way is to stick to your hair texture (straight, wavy, kinky, curly, whatever)--it doesn't matter. What matters is you look sleek and presentable. But if you do have money to continuously spend on styling your hair, then I guess changing hair texture is okay. Also make sure that the hairstyle you will choose is not outdated, meaning nung kapanahunan pa ni kopong-kopong (You know, yung mga kachupoy, gupit binata, etc). If you don't prefer changing styles that often, stick to the classics. But if you do, prepare for salon--I mean, barber shop expenses. If you can't decide which hairstyle you want, here's a list of the hairstyles girls always look for.
Very classic and manageable. Clean and flattering to almost all face types. Give it a little sidesweep and "high bangs" using gel/mousse/whatever styling thang you use. Good for jocks. This is my personal fave.
Down the Neck / Long Hair
This one's hard to pull off because there are only a few *chosen* guys who look good with long hair. I'm not saying it's not nice though. My ex crush has long hair, and it looks extremely good on him. This cut will make you more noticeable and I'm sure you'll capture girls' eyes (this cut is best if you have Asian-like features--you know, Korean, Japanese, Taiwanese men). Do this if you have reaaallly straight/manageable hair. Not good for messy hair.
Emo
Some girls like it emo. You know, those long, usually highlighted/dyed hair which covers one or both eyes. This looks good if you prefer a specific style. You will attract a lot of girls who are into rock bands, black, poetry, art, style, etc.
2. PORMA / THE USUAL GET-UP
Whenever I ask girls about their personal turn-ons for a guy, one common answer I get is the "porma", or their choice of accessories/clothes, or in layman's terms, their overall style. Any choice of clothing is okay. As long as you follow this one simple rule:
"Unless your style is hiphop, never wear oversized clothing!"
These are examples of oversized clothing.
Now, don't you think these are better?
You would know that your shirt is oversized if the sleeves does not start exactly at the tip of your shoulders. Wearing appropriate-sized clothing creates a broad-shoulder effect, which exudes more masculinity (and of course, most girls like broad shoulders). Apart from that, I guess you decide on which style you prefer (or your target female prefers).
3. COMPLEXION AND BODY
Remember boys, skin color doesn't matter to most girls. I personally like moreno/not-so-fair boys. What matters is you have a face free from blemishes (meaning acne, unappropriate facial hair, constant oily skin, etc). Girls love guys who have smooth faces. Whenever I hear my gal classmates go crazy over some Basketball Varsity member, one of the most common statements I hear is "Ang kinis ng mukha niya pag close-up!". Also keep in mind that taking care of your skin doesn't mean you're gay, it just shows that you also want to look presentable in front of people.
1. Acne
Mild to Mild-Moderate Acne - So you might have little breakout here and there, but don't fret! You might want to try Amazing Touch Tea Tree Soap and Amazing Touch Facial Lotion (Anti-Bacterial Cleanser). It works amazing if you want to maintain your skin condition. Both products cost less than 400 pesos, why don't you give it a try? Here is the link to know which clinic is nearest to you: http://www.rccamazingtouch.com/clinics.htm
Moderate to Heavy Acne - I suffer from moderate acne. So far there is no real substitute for a dermatologist in my constant search for the ultimate skin-clearing product. If you have this type of acne and have the resources to go to a dermatologist, I urge you to do so. You're doing yourself a favor. Acne scars are more difficult to heal and can even cost more as you get older. Here is my suki clinic. http://www.dermclinic.com.ph/ - Dermclinic has top-quality products and services, though it's a bit more expensive than the others. The reason behind this is because they hire professional dermatologists to prick out your zits, and not just some random nurse walking around. The least advantage is you know that it's safe (since blood is involved due to pricking) and guaranteed to clear your skin through constant treatments and follow-ups.
2. Facial Hair
For me, facial hair is really a no-no. Although some guys look good with a little stubbly aura, all in all, girls really like clean faces that they can pinch, cuddle, and *kiss*. So if you have facial hair of any kind (bigote, balbas, tuchang, etc), it's just a razor and a shaving cream away to handsomeness.
3. Constantly Oily Skin
Let's face it--guys are embarrassed to wear face powder, but they don't want to have oily faces too! So here's a good solution. It's called Clean and Clear Oil Absorbing Sheets! But if you're too shy to dab them in your face in public, just hide behind a bush or a urinal or something and make sure you dispose of them before your guy friends find out. And when you buy them at Mercury Drug Store, tell them it's for your sister. If you have extremely oily skin, you'd better take this risk, it's for your own good. Here's a pic:
4. FRAGRANCE
Girls love it when a guy smells good. Especially when there's this "trademark smell" that we sense when a guy we like passes by the hall. It just adds to the kilig effect. For me, I guess any perfume is okay unless it's not too tangy or strong. Don't believe in Axe Commercials. Personally I think Axe smells awful. If you want something good, better buy from Ralph Lauren/Tommy Hilfiger or something similar instead. But if your short on money, I guess Bench body sprays are equally good. Be sensitive in setting a trademark smell, or better yet ask your female best buds for feedback.
5. CHARACTER
This has got to be the most important asset among all others. Without this, everything else is junk. Attitude simply means the values you possess, the reputation and character you have, your insights about life, your spontaneity during conversations, intellect, and everything else under the sun. This also includes your personal interests that would make you appealing to your target female. Girls like it when guys relate to issues that they won't usually do. Example, mushy topics about love, or family situations, or their personal relationship with God.
When girls see that a guy oozing with sex appeal also has a soft side, they find it sweet and cute. But remember, don't try too hard. Sometimes, girls know it when you try too much to be attractive by showing that you have a soft side. That is just plain eeew. Bottom line is, try your best to be yourself and be an interesting person at the same time. I'm not saying that it's easy, but it is possible. And when all else fails, keep in mind that you are a unique person and there's someone out there which God set up beforehand to give to you. You might not know who she is right now, but she will be greater than any other expectation you had.
So that's it! I hope you enjoy my little FAQ! I guess I have my new motto:
ANGELINE SAYOC ©♂
Improving the Male Race since 1991
"someone who has nothing better to do"
